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“The Pink Wig” : Healing Through Cancer

A personal documentation of my own journey with Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma cancer. Sharing holistic healing tools to support chemotherapy treatment, and to help restore the mind, body and soul.

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“Sex After”: A Lifetime of Sex

A collection of stories written by women about how their sexuality was affected by the ups and downs of modern life’s challenges. They’re personal. Expressed in their own words. To start conversations we should all be having.

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The Sexual Revolution 2.0

Get ready to deconstruct your presumptions about sex and re-define sexual pleasure on your own terms.

Based on research of the sex lives of 500 women, these articles put sex under the spotlight to encourage a much-needed honest conversation about women’s pleasure. 

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The Body: Food For Supporting Treatment (Part 1)

Everyone has an opinion and a secret ingredient/supplement/recipe/regimen that they swear by to help you beat the cancer that you’d do pretty much anything to get rid of.

You go to your oncologist to fact check it all, but he just tells you not to worry about food, to just keep your weight up…

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Mindset Tool: Visualisation 

Don’t get me wrong, there were many moments where I balled my eyes out last year. Lots of sobbing, feeling overwhelmed & watching noughties telly in my pants for the entire day. 

But I also had in mind what energy I wanted to bring during my cancer treatment, overall.

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Mindset Tool: Re-Framing This Experience 

So much of getting through treatment is a challenge of the mind. 

Yes, there are undoubtedly very unpleasant physical components to treatment. But for me, the biggest test was mustering the strength day after day to go thought the physical and psychological ups and down, as well as adjusting to this weird new reality.

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Mindset Tool: Being in your Sovereignty

I had huge resistance to do chemo initially. 

My aunt responded adversely to it 15 years ago. 

And the spiritual coaches, wellness gurus and general “woo woo” crew id been rubbing shoulders with – on and offline – for years told me to mistrust big pharma, and rather meditate and juice and unblock my chakras back to health.

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There are no rules for weathering the storm that is cancer, and keeping sane and strong amidst the chaos of a diagnosis. There never will be a ‘right way’ of doing cancer treatment. 

Everyone’s individual experience is just that: individual.

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Introducing ‘The Pink Wig’

This season of articles are dedicated to all those who have been diagnosed with cancer.

Here’s why.

Whilst I was recovering from chemotherapy treatment, I was contacted online by a woman called Emma…

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